People Change

As they say there is nothing constant in this world but change. I, myself, believed that the quote stand true. Change happens everywhere, to anyone regardless of the time and reason for change. As I wake up in this everyday life I also can’t help but notice all the li’l changes that are occurring around me. If we are more sensitive with our surrounding, with the people that revolve around our lives, and with our own self you can’t help but notice the mere changes that is taking place. Thus, as all other things change, people change as well.

There are only two types of changes; good and bad. Indeed, a person changes in a way that it makes him a better or a worse kind of person. There’s a lot of reason that affects a person for him to motivate and initialize change within. When or why they change is the most basic question.

We change because sometimes we feel the need of changing. But we can never deny the fact that personal experiences, most specially the painful ones, has always been one of the greatest factors to change our personality or being. Furthermore, with those experiences scars are left that always reminds us not to be the same person again that was used to be hurt.

With all my hurtful experiences,i have believd that i have now changed into a better person. i learned a lot from it. With all the pain i have molded myself into someone reborn and renew.

Change is a process that takes time. Learn to evaluate yourself; you’ll see that you’ve changed of who you are yesterday than today.

aLa dE pAmilya

im currently living in a 3-room house and there 7 different people living in it fated to have their roads cross.

let me introduce my housemates which has also been my family here in cebu..

tOp moSt piC: tE amoR, 'yA rOeL, 'yA fArLie, 'yA jeFfreY, mElody, briAn and mE.. :)

what makes them a family?

*they love and care_last jan. 8-11 of 2009,just few days after i transferred, i was hospitalized at chong hua medical hospital [one of the most expensive hospital in cebu ;)] they were their to nurse and look for me inside the hospital despite with their busy schedule.

*they share_in the house we always share whatever blessings we have,just like a real family.

it feels so comforting when you have a place you can call home away from your real home..

new home,new people..

*you can also set the date today,which is 12/29/2008. you scroll down to settings.....*
words from my co-workmate who is assisting a customer setting up the time and date of the phone. december 29,2008----the date gave a ding on my ears. it's just simply our bhouse due date,in which it entails another month of payment. that was not the problem,but i and my boardmates were planning to transfer into a different bhouse since we thought that the amount we're paying every month is not worth for the kind of environment our bhouse has. that has always been a plan 3 months ago but still were stock in the same "kinda-filthy" bhouse. we never had the time to look for a new bhouse since all of us are working. we happened to have time once but unfortunately we were unable to find a new house were we can transfer to. we found some good ones but they do not accept "co-ed",all my other roomates are girls. there are four of us,one is my cousin and the other two were my ates. due to unavailability of time to look for a good house where the four of us can settle we decided to stay on our current bhouse.

we planned to set everything on the next year. since it will be a new year,we want to start it right by transferring to a new house for real. well,the plan didn't go well as we thought it would be. since dec. 29 was due date we ought to pay the next day for our next month's rental. there's no extension. we decided not to pay since all our minds were set to realize the dream of transferring to a different house.

dec 30,2008--we start packing our things eventhough we are unsure yet where we're going. if the four of us will stay together we wont be able to find a place to stay. so what happened we split up,we need to go on separate ways. while we were packing our things we can't help to reminisce the good times we have. it's sad though that we will no longer be staying together but the mem'ries will always stay. we still manage to laugh but you'll see that there is sadness in our eyes. after 8 months of staying in the same four corners of a room and 1 roof, i never could imagine it but it's happening..we're heading toward different destinations.

that day ended with all our bags packed,ready to go. we transferred at the end of the day.
when i was riding on the taxi on my way to my new bhouse at 999 Bercede Compound, AS Fortuna St. , Banilad, Cebu City, i couldn't help to let myself feel a li'l hesitation to come since it was an abrupt plan. i dont have any choice,if i wont go then i dont have any other place that i can stay to with all my things.

after around 30 mins travel i arrived on my destination and start unloading my stuffs from the taxi, i paid ofcourse and as i move forward towards the door i feel a li'l awkward.
anyways, i know i can manage it since my new roommate is just my co-workmate. ill introduce him to you in the next episodes of my blog.

living in a new house with absolutely different people always mean adjustment.
to adjust with the new environment and the people who live in it is normal though.
i need to socialize, to understand their way of living and to adopt.
each person has a unique characteristic but i believe i wont have any problem with it.
i can easily be flexible with different kinds of attitudes.

living in a new home and new people is a great oppurtunity as well to unveil yourself to more people. an advantage to befriend new faces and explore whole new environment.
as to my old housemates before, i surely will miss them. we've gone our separate ways but we'll be friends forever. the fun mem'ries are never to relinquish, those mem'ries are unpayable.

as to the new people, i promise to be myself. remain transparent. to be the best of who i am..
no lies, just plainly the wholeness of me. i also hope to gather good mem'ries with them which i can add to my treasure box.

welcome to a new home.